FAQ's - Frequently Asked Questions
- What's included for the price?
- Are linens supplied?
- Does it get cold at night?
- Is there indoor plumbing?
- Are there non-smoking rooms?
- Are there private bathrooms?
- Is the food kosher?
- What if I have a special diet?
- Is there an eruv?
- Will there be religious services?
- Is this a "religious" weekend?
- What is Camp Ramah?
- What should I bring?
- What should I not bring?
- What do people wear?
- What is the weekend's history?
- Why the name Wingdale University?
- Where do the weekend's profits go?
- What's the age range?
- Where do people come from?
- Can couples attend?
- Can I bring my children?
- Can I bring my dog?
- Can I just show up?
- Can I come for only a day or two?
- Can I suggest an activity?
- Will there be mixed dancing?
- How many people are coming?
- What is the gender ratio?
- Is there Internet access in camp?
- Is there cell phone service in camp?
- Can you describe the various accommodations?
A: Your registration fee includes all lodging, food and activities (and there is no tipping). The only major item not covered is transportation to and from the camp.
A: Yes. The camp will provide a fully made bed (sheets, pillow, blanket, pillowcase), towels, toilet paper (some of you have asked!) and soap.
A: Camp Ramah is located in a beautiful and pastoral area (i.e. there are farms and various small and quaint New England towns nearby) about 75 miles north of Manhattan. It can get much colder there at night than in New York City. Since it is a summer camp, the cabins are not winterized or heated. Extra blankets will be available. Check the weather forecast online for "Wingdale, NY" before you come to get a sense of what the weather will be like. In past years we have had Memorial Day weekends which have been quite hot and others that have not.
A:Yes. All cabins have indoor plumbing (toilets, sinks, and showers) with hot and cold running water.
A: Smoking is not permitted inside of any building in camp (most buildings are made out of wood and have wooden floors).
A: As this is a children's summer camp, there are extremely few private bathrooms in any of the bunks or cabins (including places where there are doubles and singles). While selecting a double or single does increase the likelihood that you might get one, there will be no guarantees made regarding this.
A: All food served is kosher and is under the supervision of the mashgiach (kashrut supervisor) at Camp Ramah in the Berkshires, the camping arm of the Jewish Theological Seminary of America. As a consequence, no (personal) food or utensils may be brought into the dining hall.
A: We will easily be able to accommodate most vegetarians (make sure you indicate that you are a vegetarian on the registration form). If you have a special diet then please contact Laura to discuss your needs before you register for the weekend.
A: Yes. There is an eruv around the camp (an eruv allows people who are strict Sabbath observers to carry on Shabbat).
A: Services held daily, no waiting! Shabbat and daily services (three a day) will be held throughout the weekend. There will be two minyans, one egalitarian and one not when possible. (There will only be a joint service on Friday and Saturday evenings). Services are optional and may sometimes conflict with other activities.
A: This weekend is designed to appeal to people with a wide variety of religious backgrounds, observance levels and preferences. It should be a comfortable environment for those who attend Conservative synagogues (i.e. B'nai Jeshurun or Ansche Chesed), those who are modern orthodox (the food is kosher, there is an eruv for Shabbat and activities on Shabbat are "Shabbat friendly") and those who consider themselves not at all observant (as long as you are comfortable being at a Shabbat dinner and similar activities). On Shabbat there will be many activities available such as swimming, basketball, softball, volleyball, and tennis. The weekend is being run under the auspices of a summer camp that is part of the Conservative movement. Certain activities will not happen on Shabbat and (optional) religious services will be held throughout the weekend. While on Shabbat it would be considered "bad form" to blare a boom box outdoors in camp or to drive your car inside the camp, no one will stop you from listening to your iPod (and BTW, if you park your car outside of camp then that is your business). Please contact us if you have any questions.
A: Camp Ramah in the Berkshires is one of a multiple of Ramah summer camps in North America run by the Jewish Theological Seminary of America (or the University of Judaism in California for the Ramah camp located there) and is part of the Conservative Movement. There are other Ramah camps located in Latin America and Israel.
A: Sports gear (softball/baseball glove, tennis racket & balls, sneakers, etc), sunglasses, sunscreen, hiking boots (if you intend to go hiking), backpack for hiking, board games, bathing suit, talit (there are none in camp), prayer book with English translation (the ones in camp may not have an English translation), an umbrella (hopefully never to be needed), clothes you can layer, sleeping bag (in case it gets cold at night - Camp Ramah is in the country and the bunks are not heated - extra blankets will be available).
A: Expensive jewelry (there is no place to lock up valuables), stiletto high heels (only parts of camp are paved), sport jackets, ties, suits (it's camp, let's be casual).
A: Camp is informal. If the weather is warm then a T-shirt and shorts or a bathing suit is fine. If it is cold then layer up. Typically people get a little more dressed up on Friday evening and sometimes also on Saturday morning (but nothing too fancy). For men on Friday night cotton khaki type pants (or wool suit type pants) and a button down shirt are suggested.
A: The weekend started in 1991. It was a small venture back then and only 55 people attended that first year. It grew as the years went by to an attendance of about 175 people in the late 90's. The attendance has been smaller in recent years (about 120 in recent years). We haven't kept track but we do know that there have been at least three marriages resulting from people who met at the weekend including one involving a couple who met at the 2008 weekend and another that met at the 2009 weekend. In additional a second couple who met at the 2009 weekend is now engaged.
A: The weekend's first year (1991) was different than all others that came after it in regards to sponsorship. In 1991 Michael Brochstein rented the camp and ran the weekend as a private event. Since the camp was not a sponsor of the weekend that year, he couldn't use the camp's name other than to say that Camp Ramah was where the event was taking place. As Camp Ramah in the Berkshires is located in Wingdale, NY, the first word of the name is obvious. Wingdale, NY is a fairly rural small town (notice the local farms etc) and does not contain any school of higher learning beyond that of the local high school. Given the character of the town, the name Wingdale University sounded humorous as it seemed absurd on some level given the local reality. In 1991 the weekend was called the "Wingdale University Happiness Clinic". Say what you will about the name but it seemed to sound like much more fun (and having one's tongue planted firmly in cheek) than "Just Another Singles Weekend Run By Some Guy From NYC". The main graphic element of the Wingdale University Happiness Clinic logo was an ear of corn which hopefully conveyed how corny the whole endeavor was (it was also a lot of fun!).
In 2007 when Michael Brochstein again became the Weekend's Director after a 12 year hiatus it was apparent that the weekend needed to be "rebooted". In the mid-2000's attendance at the weekend had fallen off sharply and it was decided to both "reboot" the weekend and to give it a new name (rebranding it?) to help people realize that the weekend was going to be different than it had been in the recent past. In the intervening years (after 1991) it had simply been called simply the Memorial Day Weekend at Camp Ramah in the Berkshires. Michael resurrected the Wingdale University name and moved himself and everyone else who attended the weekend along, academically at least, so that now the weekend's name is the Wingdale University Post Graduate Seminar (note that the ear of corn is still in the logo).
A: Camp Ramah in the Berkshires is a non-profit organization. Profits (hopefully!) will help to fund the camp's activities.
A: In recent years guests have been in their 30's, 40's and 50's.
A: In recent years attendees to the weekend have come from the following states; CT, DC, FL, IL, MA, MD, MI, NJ, NY, PA, VA, VT.
A: Yes. Please contact us for details.
A: We're sorry but we are unable to accommodate children on this weekend.
A: We're sorry but we are unable to accommodate pets on this weekend.
A: No. Walk-in's will not be allowed and will be turned away. Under no circumstances will we permit anyone who shows up without a reservation to remain in camp. Trespassers will be escorted off of the (private) property.
A: In general the answer is no but if you have a very special situation that makes it impossible for you to attend the entire weekend but would still like to come for a portion of it then please contact us before registering. We will try (no promises) to accommodate you.
A: Yes, suggestions are appreciated. Please contact us.
A: We certainly hope so (though no one will be forced to).
A: Almost everyone asks this question and the answer is that as a group singles wait until the last possible moment to sign up so it is only at the very end of registration that we really know how many people are coming. The more participates the better, invite your friends!
A: It is typically 50-50.
A: Wifi is available in limited pulic spaces at camp.
A: Cell phone coverage is probably not as good as wherever you are from as the camp is located in a sparsely populated rural area. There is coverage in many areas of camp.
A: There are three types of accommodations available, "Camper Cabins", "Doubles" and "Singles". A Camper Cabin is a cabin that during the normal summer season may be used to house 12 to 15 campers and counselors (and has that many beds in it). For the Memorial Day weekend we will house only five to seven people in a cabin. The bathrooms of Camper Cabins generally contain two showers, two sinks and two toilets and all can be used at the same time. A Double is a room, typically in "staff" housing or a "guest cabin", in which there will be two people assigned to use during the Memorial Day weekend. A Single is similar to a Double except that only one person will be assigned to the room. In the case of Doubles and Singles the bathroom may be private or it may be shared with others from other Singles and/or Doubles. These bathrooms are typically one-person "full" bathrooms (with a sink, toilet and shower). When trying to imagine the accommodations please keep in mind that Camp Ramah is a children's summer camp. It is not a hotel and most of the buildings are winterized or have heat or air-conditioning. Please note that most of the doors at the facility do not have locks.